Paul, how are you feeling today?

How much of this problem is yours?

What can you do to help your D with this?

Your W has her issues, you know that. She's not going to miraculously become someone she's not. Don't go to the hardware store for bread.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss