Its funny I had three girlfriends over a few weeks ago and two were really pushing me to do online dating. i really dont have anything opposed to it but I just feel like it takes a lot of time to create this profile and go on dates the majority of which lead nowhere. Finally the 3rd friend without me prodding says "why does she need online dating? She has two gorgeous girls, she has friends. It will happen when it happens"

That was totally what I needed to hear. I am busy, very busy being a single mom. I have great friends and family to lean on. I have these boards to vent.


One day I will have a man in my life but I am not interested in having one just for the sake of having one - they take up too much energy.

When I go to friends house and see their H play violent crazy video games on Saturdays it always makes me extra happy. Plus I have more closet space.

Go easy on yourself


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13