Hi Melissa I don't know how you do it but you seem to have a thought or an answer to a question I am struggling with.. Is it men or is it men who walk out..
I have way too much empathy, my H none. I still am not clear on my transgressions. ?really but my point posting here is I asked how he thought I was feeling...it fitted with the conversation at the time... His answer... not well.... really 14 year relationship finished with NO discussion in one afternoon...NOT WELL
so I checked my translator.. I wondered does German have words for devasted, destroyed, crushed.betrayed... Guess what it does... lots of them..and he choooses NOT WELL. Why choose the word murdered, why tell a little girl to stop following him... I have been reading your posts... you are an inspiration...but your H...hmm NOT an inspiration...really
