melissa

[melissag]

Oh, before anyone thinks I am MUCH further along than I actually am, let me clarify:

It's so funny because I say this to other people and I believe it, 1000%. Yet I am still trying to convince myself it applies to me. At least I am at the point where I am open to it.

I didn't mean that I am open to dating someone right now. I mean that I am open to the thought that there might be some possibility that someday I will once again maaayyyybe potentially possibly be able to have some sort of R with a man. Until then, I have my one cat, and that will have to do. (And I promise to try to keep the poop in his litter box and not throw it in H's sandbox.)

Betsey, wow. Just wow. I mean, my H locked us out of the house on numerous occasions, left a pot on the stove and the stove on all night long (I sure hope he has a fire alarm in his D Pad), left the back door open (not just unlocked, but actually open) all night, and even once went to the airport having only put a ticket on a 24 hour hold (two months before) rather than actually buying it, to name just a few, but to forget your kid's birthday? That's pretty bad.

Luckily, I am assuming your D17 didn't know anything about it?

Oh, Mr. Wonderful.

I guess you will have to start reminding him a few months in advance next year, and make sure you add the date when you reference your D's birthdays.