Reaching out for support and advice 3

[bluesgal]

Thanks Wonka, for checking in on me. I'd love to tell you the kids are great....they're not. D and H relationship is straining. She has lost trust and respect. She warms up to him after he's visited for awhile. S is asking for dad less and less all the time and is really bonding with me. We have a routine at the house and we have fun-even had a whoopie cushion out tonight

I had a great counseling session today. She was impressed by how far I've come in 9 months and as I reflect back, it's true. My detachment is improving. My GAL is awesome. Our home is peaceful (too quiet some days).

When H comes over I always have a nice meal and dessert. I never ask him questions. We play with the kids. He has alone time with them. I am trying to do what 25 mentioned: To create a contrast between the empty life he's living and our real life here.

Spoke to H on the phone tonight. I just can't shake how disinterested he seems in me. He will ask about 'safe' subjects, but avoids me. There is no warmth or interest. He is completely empty of love towards me and that scares me.