Hey FY, I like that you are doing something a bit different and that she seems to be ok with it. Good on you.
Thanks, UR. I do wonder if this'll make any difference at all to W. Her crises is about her, not me, and we both know nothing I say or do can fix that. Even so, I don't care. I have to change things up for myself, no matter what happens!
Originally Posted By: Wonka
How did your W react when you held her and made those comments? Did she flinch? Did she appear nervous? As you can tell, I am starving for the Penthouse version.
I wish I had a penthouse version.
There was no flinch, no nervousness, just a little bit of "perturbedness". Even so, I know she appreciated it, because WOA is one of her LL's. Mostly, I see it as a positive because in the end she DID reach out to me, when she didn't have to. She could have easily refused.
Baby steps. I won't be trying to bed her tonight!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
