I'm sorry to rag on your W here, but wow, is she self absorbed.
Seriously? Her 16 year old D tells her she is hurt, and your W spends 90% of her response about herself and her own feelings, and throws in at the end, like an afterthought, btw, I love you and I'm here for you???
Ugh. UGH UGH UGH triple UGH!!
Sorry, I'm mad now. I am really sorry for your D16. No mother should treat her child that way. And yes, 16 is still a child who needs her Mom.
Sorry M I was not trying to cause anger, but the message from my D really bugged me. I called my Sis to talk it over and said again, was it Always like this??? Yes she replied. you just didn't want to see. UGH!
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14