Blues,

Here to offer you some support and encouragement. smile

I've brewed up some intense anger lately about the torture he's putting his family through.

Please try to remember that H's MLC is all about himself and a process that he needs to work through himself. This is not intentional at all. For sure, I did not wake up one day with the intent to hurt and torture Ms. Wonka! They're broken and you need to unhitch your wagon from H; otherwise, he'll drag you all over the place with his fogged thinking & actions.

Over the course of the day, he made a few off handed remarks blaming me for his severed relationship with his parents and made a couple of sarcastic smirks when I said something he didn't agree with.

The MLCer will blame you for a lot of things. He'll blame you for the Moon not being Green. Ignore his smirks and whatever ornery expressions come across his face.

I joined a bookclub with girlfriends this month. I have avoided it for years because I was too busy. Not any more. My GAL is awesome.

Yay for you! Glad you've joined a bookclub to keep you occupied and will make you appear interesting to others when at some cocktail party that you'll attend at some point down the road. smile

He says he is miserable and has a knot in his stomach everyday.

This is one of the rare lucid moments from H where the real truth spills out of his mouth. Make a note of it and put it in the back of your mind. His life isn't one LONG, HAPPY picnic right now irrespective of how he portrays it nowadays.

How are the kiddos?