I'm sorry to rag on your W here, but wow, is she self absorbed.
Seriously? Her 16 year old D tells her she is hurt, and your W spends 90% of her response about herself and her own feelings, and throws in at the end, like an afterthought, btw, I love you and I'm here for you???
Ugh. UGH UGH UGH triple UGH!!
Sorry, I'm mad now. I am really sorry for your D16. No mother should treat her child that way. And yes, 16 is still a child who needs her Mom.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14