my wife left, but still lives with me #3/continued

[tough spot]

I am letting go of the concept of R and hopefully at the same time any controlling type behavior I might be utilizing. I am letting go of allowing my wife's emotional state affect mine.

I went to the bank today to check on getting a loan. This loan will ease the financial burden and make a physical separation more feasible.

I shared with her my newest idea of custody, which is our one main sticking point to separating physically. I had been holding that back as for myself, it was an admission the M was over and could possibly accelerate our divorce (eg. having a solution for one of the main sticking points rather then being stuck in limbo as we couldn't figure out a solution).