It stinks when stuff like that happens. You've done a good deed so you can feel badly about yourself. I guess that's why they preach detachment though.
Bloody phone. Badly = good.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014