bug, for the record, that wasn't what I thought you were saying at all! Your advice is exactly the opposite of pointing out to people that they are delusional - I get it!
That response was to 3boyz . . . I was agreeing with her that my H needs a lawyer to inject some reality into his ideas about D.
I did read your response in the context of the earlier postings.
I apologize.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
Your advice is exactly the opposite of pointing out to people that they are delusional - I get it! 
