Bottom line is this-- Your W thinks that you hold grudges. And, as Byron Katie says, "when you argue with reality, you lose 100 percent of the time." That you hold grudges or that she doesn't may not be true, but that's her reality. This means that you need to stop the grudge-holding and taunting whether it's fair or not if you want her feelings to soften toward you. As a woman I can say that I really don't like that in a guy. Do what works. JMO.
