I'm in, wife's out

[trc2009]

I'm hoping her "mood" will get a little back to normal after she's had some time to calm down a bit from that. I appreciate their family feeling like they need to talk some sense into her but in all honesty, "I've got this." And if I don't "got this," then that's just the way it's going to be and she'll have to live with her decisions.

They can be supportive of me and the prospects of our marriage WITHOUT getting in her face about it. My W doesn't hate me and she's even told me that she defended me to them back when we first separated stating that it isn't all my fault, I'm her husband, I'm a good guy, etc. Neither of us want us to have a strained relationship w/ each other's family if for some reason things do work out. I told my family something similar even though it would have been VERY easy to throw her under the bus when we first separated. And lord knows I have justified reasons for doing so. But I don't want that.