I'm in, wife's out

[Bunches]

I can completely relate to your last two posts. Every time W is confronted by family members it seems like I am dispised. I didn't say anything and am trying not to discuss with family these days just to be sure nothing gets back around in any way, but...still seems to happen and hate mode comes back.

The trust thing too. My W spent the first 4 months making comments about expecting me to go into a mean and terrible mode at some point and attack. She says I hold grudges worse than anyone she knows. Okay...I do like to remember little things and bring them back up, usually just to taunt (trying to 180) but nothing vindictive or hurtful that I can think of ever. I can't explain this one though. But I can relate.

Also, I would like to add that the Jedi Mind Trick would be nice to have. Especially now...