Is it typical for a WAS to feel little trust toward the LBS for no real reason?
Not in terms of infidelity or safety concerns. But it's almost like my W is constantly thinking in the back of her head that I'm going to do something in a sneaky way that's out to screw her.
Which is so hard for me to wrap my hands around. My wife and I have had a marriage built around mutual respect and trust. Even with some of our issues, I don't think either of us would say that one of us didn't trust the other. I think that's why we've never really had a fight about money, the kids, or "other people."
It's almost like every little thing that comes out of my mouth the last couple of days gets turned around on me like I'm a some stranger trying to rip her off. And I've been acting no different than I was the previous two weeks.
COMPLETELY CONFUSING! She did this the first couple weeks we were separated and then it seemed like she chilled out a for a couple of weeks. Then she's back to this. And I've literally done nothing different the last several days.
Me: 33 W: 27 S: 5 D: 2 Bomb: 1/2/14 First Separation: 1/25/14 MC: 2/7/14 (one time only) Moved Back in: 3/31/14 W says she wants a divorce and moves out: 7/26/14 Appt to sign dissolution: 12/30/14