One small input...great job on GAL..if you actually thought that putting this stuff on you debit card was going to prove your point to W that you GAL you're not all the way there yet. Keep doing stuff but don't worry about if she'll see that you did it .....she'll see it if you are enjoying yourself and furthermore, you will be enjoying yourself so it won't matter! That's the point of GAL. Its not a game where you're trying to get her to see and respond....you're doing great..just keep that in mind. Do it to feel better not to win her back. You might not...but at least you'll feel better.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14