When you suggest that she doesn't exist, does that mean that my boundary is void of her too?
I posted this previously:
Originally Posted By: PatientMan
The OW doesn't exist to you. You don't talk about her, you don't think about her, you don't snoop, you don't acknowledge that she exists.
Regarding boundaries, you have mentioned setting some regarding how you will interact with your H relative to his involvement with OW. Other than setting that boundary, which is for you and NOT to punish him, see the previous paragraph.
Do you understand?
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
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