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Thanks!
This weekend the kids and I came down to visit my parents. I'm not sure if my mom realizes it or not but she is so controlling regarding everything. I've always done everything to try and make her happy. Today my dad was doing something with the baby. My mom got upset and I said " you try and control everything". She then left the table and went upstairs. The kids got upset so I went upstairs to ask her to come back down. She said don't u apologize to me. I said I wasn't. Then she starts crying and tells me she has to have a medical procedure next week. Now I feel awful.
She loves my kids so much.
I feel so guilty because I am trying to step out on my own. I am staying here on my off days from the house during the separation/divorce. Whenever I disagree I feel such guilt. It does n't help that she hates my H. She never liked him.
I think my IC will help with this.