Blues. I know right. Why do they feel the need to keep reminding us (themselves?) That they hate us. It seems pretty pointless.

The thing is that h keeps spouting how I am so weak and laxy and can't do anything for myself and how I won't survive without him. That was not the person I was when I met him. That is not who I thought I was in the marriage but I am trying to look at it from his point of view and see where he thought I was to dependent on him. That is definitely not who I am now. I have made it through 6 months of doing everything by myself. So no matter what he says I know who I am and who I want to be.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15