FYI, we have enough to survive but not enough to work on paying off cards fast and little to savings.
I know if I battle my fear and turn around and get a big raise(so, do the opposite), she could even afford to get a part time job or stay at home for the summer with the kids while she lands her dream job (which she does have now) or she may have a change of heart and like to work part time and/or stay at home. That was her dream before you know. To be a stay home mom. Right now he hates the fact that she works too much and has little time for the kids. And i do have the time. Now.... She may take the opportunity and use it to leave faster or she may plainly deny my idea for her to spend time, choose to just work as he is and use the extra money to pay off stuff faster, hence, leaving faster and with more security.
Me: 37, WAW 33, M 13 years Kids: Boy: 4, Girl: 8 Separated: 10/24/13 DB since: 12/14/13 Big D talk started: 1/1/14 (Not served yet) Still living together/Separate rooms
