About the financials, I feel like if I get a big pay raise now all she will do is expedite her leaving. My window to DB while leaving together will be smaller


Me: 37, WAW 33, M 13 years
Kids: Boy: 4, Girl: 8
Separated: 10/24/13
DB since: 12/14/13
Big D talk started: 1/1/14 (Not served yet)
Still living together/Separate rooms