Originally Posted By: CallaghanClown


I know I'm the prize. I know my ego is bruised. I need to get rid of that. Who or what he does has no connection to my self esteem. He's damaged, why should that reflect on who I am. I'm not the one jumping into bed with low hanging fruit. I don't need another human being to tell me how great I am, to feel good, I know it in my heart.

I just need to remember it.


this is good stuff!! I am going to repeat this to myself! I'm sorry that you're going through this, no one deserves it. I wouldn't even wish it on my MLC'er. Hang in there, today will be a better day, there are better days ahead!


Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs