I am sorry, I guess I didn't write what I actually meant.
The miami comment, was about joking around possibly needing a new laptop ... in case I have a Miami meeting. It is suggesting that in my new business position/or current one... that I will suddenly become a world traveller. It was not directed or used as bait, for him to say "lets vacay" together. Although, he is encouraging this type of travel for us. And I do see your point.
I will be very careful not to throw bait. But, I know he has intentions of more coffee times and even to go out for a beer. Do I not accept these offers? I will "wait" to reply... no immediate responses.
I agree about pushing now. I am fearful of that. So, I will continue to go about my life, independent of him and do the things that need to get done. My next outing, will be the womens support/mentoring group on Tuesday night.
Thank you Kate... this is good stuff!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
