Three months after BD, after saying and doing some things that have given me quite a bit of hope, H clarifies that in fact, he has zero desire to be M to me or anyone else, now or ever, and that he wants to proceed with D.
me: "isn't this kind of a weird conversation to have via text message?"
H: "yeah, but when we talk face to face I tend to want to have sex with you."
I'm not as close to D as you are Melissa but this made me laugh. The whole sex thing w/ a WAS is so strange.
My wife always cuts my hair. Usually, I'm just wearing my boxer briefs or a towel. Of course I needed a hair cut. I asked her if she wanted to do it if not I could go somewhere to get it done. She said, "I don't think that's a good idea because I'd be seeing you with just a towel on and I will just want to have sex with you." Hey, at least she still finds me attractive.
But it just goes to show you how messed up a WAS really is. They will avoid anything that will conjure up good feelings toward a LBS in order to maintain their negative opinion of you.
Me: 33 W: 27 S: 5 D: 2 Bomb: 1/2/14 First Separation: 1/25/14 MC: 2/7/14 (one time only) Moved Back in: 3/31/14 W says she wants a divorce and moves out: 7/26/14 Appt to sign dissolution: 12/30/14