MM, you backed off, he is pursuing.

You said you may have a meeting in Miami. You said it to him in hopes he would say " let's make it a vacation or go together etc."

It doesn't matter if he still loves you, it is still his life and he will do what he wants.

You push anything now and I guarantee you will either lose what you have gained or lose it permanently.

So, still no coffee, wait to reply, do not throw bait to H ( I might have to go to Miami...)

Get out of the house...go do something. The concert was great. You have to push yourself out of that comfort zone.