Because Bond, I already was giving space and detachment. I already knew that advice from DAY 1. Not once did I seek that information, but the other advice on coffee time, etc. Things like how to attract, etc., being reminded to follow Sandi's 37 rules, etc. were the advice I was/am seeking. I have given space and detatchment pretty much right away. As soon as I realized how important it was in the early months. I listened, I actioned!

All the opinions were quite different. Different people, different opinions. Not all one like mind.

Did you not notice that at the bottom of the post, I already knew I needed more detachment? See thats whats so frustrating about you, I do what I am told and you just don't see it.

Now, the situation is changing. It IS different now. Wondering, what the next steps are.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)