One year in but a newbie

[Lifes Twists]

Any advice on this up coming trip to visit a college my daughter is interested in attending. Should I find some way to discourage my wife from going? I can use it a a trip to continue improving the relationship with my daughters and also as a GAL. Or should I encourage her to come since it is a big decision for my daughter and I don't anyone feeling like I am trying to not include my W in this decision? I have a feeling she will discourage herself from going. Should I try and talk her into going if she does?