I can. Certainly. But what I am saying is that my response was to let her choose which day because I am not the one who is pushing separation.
She asked me again a few mins ago if I wanted the kids today or tomorrow and I told her "my choice is to spend time with my family 7 days a week, so I leave it up to you because you are the one pushing this" I now think it may not be the right thing to have said but I wanted her to know I am indifferent to the choice.
What I read in that^^ is "W, I still have no outside interests or friends.
= I'm NEEDY and INCOMPLETE WITHOUT YOU...(so I don't bring much to the table)
Manhope, why would you believe your answer was anything but an attempt to look like martyr and guilt her some more?
What have you CHANGED about you? Yes Yes, I know, "more time at home" but before hand your only outlet was work and home.
Now, your outlets are "work and home" but in different ratios. There has to be some CHANGE...change she can believe in.
Here's the "math" of it:
small incremental changes + sufficient time = change she can believe in
Surely there were hobbies or passions that you once were interested in?
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