A twist on cake-eating & dropping a bomb of my own

[T-boned]

Gotta agree with kml on this one. Be very careful with him right now. Sounds like he may be trying to 'work' you a little on the emotional end to gain something or to keep you from asking for what is rightfully yours. Try to get yourself, if you haven't already, into thinking about this as purely a business transaction. Be very business-like - set your emotions aside. Easier said than done for some of us, but so necessary so we don't get taken advantage of.

I'll get a crack at it in a couple of weeks - something I'm not looking forward to but hoping I can pull off because I think my H may not make out as well as he hopes to. And if that happens he will not be pleasent to deal with. Has already said if he doesn't get X amount of dollars out of this, he "may not be so generous," whatever the h_ll that means...

Hang in there!