I'm so sorry to hear that about your situation hang in there, it sounds like you're doing things that you can control and that's all you can do. try and stay positive, I know easier said then done - it is disheartening to think that it goes on for so long
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs