Thanks Kate... thanks for popping in.. A new fresh perspective.

I am blown away at the moment.

Yes.. space and detachment was a unanimous piece of advice by all. Those are the 2 things that I feel I have done. But, still need to do.

How do you mean when you suggest that H just reversed the pursuing roles?

What business meeting alone? (lost here)

"If someone wants to be in your life, they will make the effort"... THIS I need to SEE!!! I hope I have the patience to sit back and watch. I am too eager to want to "be with" him again. I told him something along the lines of this tonight when we were within each others arms. He said he is showing it, slowly.

Yes, I have seen "some" effort to change coming from him. He said that is why I got the apology last night. Why he wants to compliment me more (complimented nails tonight). I have seen him seek out the positives in light of the negatives in our days. I have seen him "try" to get better. He knows there is work to be done.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)