One year in but a newbie

[Lifes Twists]

I have been sitting here for a while, taking some deep breaths to center myself and reading Sandi's 37 rules. I believe that I handled it well with my daughters by not reacting to it. I don't plan to react or even bring it up with her. I won't pursue her. If she brings it up I won't react and just move the conversation on to something else or just end it. I do have to work on not being so available when she has issues. I have to try and figure out which ones will affect the girls and respond to those, butthe others I need to be less available.

I will talk to my daughters.I will tell them that we are on two different roads right now and will have to see where those roads lead. I will tell them that they should not feel the need to lie to me to cover up what there mother is doing. What she is doing is her business.