Yes,it sure does seem we are in the same club! My H had stopped talking to his EA for a month or so, but just got back into contact with her 2 days ago. Because he found out I was seeing someone else. I think?? My H likes to play the fight, night game and provokes me to be mean so he can nice. Unfortunately, I fall for it! he likes to say I don't want to fight with you, I want to get along, I want to be friends for the kids. I really wish I could go away for a month and come back. H would know what it would be like to be with out me and the kids too for that matter. It is so hard going dim with kids. since I've started going on dates with someone it's a little easier to disconnect. But then I've had the backlash of having somebody treat me nice and pay attention to me. Then I get angry because it wasn't that way for a long time with H. I seem to need to let him know how bad he was. Wrong, wrong I know!! Good luck to you!
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
