Oh ya. I heard all the same too..basically our 15 yr marriage has been 80 % bad 20 good. H wasn't resentful for the affair but felt sorry for me.wth! It is so strange how they all seem to say the same things. I think maybe women do too?
Since this is my second trip down this road. 7 years ago, my H was quick to date after separation. Seem to be more interested in finding someone new that time. That time when H left there was no OW. Just fed up and miserable. Which he is this time too.
This time seems all emotional and occupying himself with work about 12 hours a day 6 days a week. Not quite sure what that means. I seem not to be as eager to reconcile this time although it still hurts and feels like a failure!
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
