Chinks in the Armor & still Standing on that Hill

[2Times2Many]

Hi Pud. Like you my sitch was stagnant for some time, but like you it seems I am now on my way to Dville.

Came across H's facebook page which he finally did something with after years of nothing and there she was ... the OW he said he had ended it with.

I lost it and told him he couldn't stay here when he came back in a few days, that I wanted him to move out and it was over for us.

He stayed at a hotel, starting arranging getting me off his bank accounts (and him off mine), has started making arrangements to move his stuff somewhere, has hired an attorney and told me he accepts D and that he wants me to move on and be happy because he can't be the kind of H I need.

He did tell me he had dinner with OW before he came back and I suspect he is getting advice from her to go through with the D.

I have spent most of the day separating stuff he asked me to go through. I hate doing that, but better him than me. Lois is right. It feels a lot like BD time.

I am so sorry we are going through all this, but this DB stuff IS good for us. I have found strength I didn't know I had and it seems that you have, too. I just keep thinking of that Gloria Gaynor song - "I Will Survive." And we will!

Hugs
2T2M