It's interesting, because up until the point where I filed for S, I wasn't done at all.
It's his behavior, now that things aren't going his way, that makes me realize he is not what I want in a partner. And maybe the reason he left is because I spent years trying to make him be more when he simply never was.
I feel like someone has this MLK, Jr. quote in his/her signature:
The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.
I know where I want to stand (and have worked hard to do so), and now I know where my H stands.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
