Originally Posted By: melissag
Thanks, Paul. smile

Well, I got a pleasant (OK, not unpleasant) text from H this morning, responding to my text from Friday.

Hopefully we can continue to communicate in a pleasant manner. I know I need to be grateful for every non-antagonistic communication, but I can't help but be suspicious and wonder what the F he is up to. I just don't trust him one tiny bit.

He is going to have to really be consistent with his changes to convince me that they are lasting.
H
smile
funny how in a sense when this stuff breaks kinda like your situstion and mine we begin to become " the one who does the leaving..." if you understsnd my quoted part. I don't really care what my W does now. I'm done.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14