Thanks LFW. It does make a lot of sense. My wife was good enough to let me know when I wasn't listening yesterday and expressed frustration about it.
Overall, yesterday was a good day. My parents are leaving tomorrow for sure. My wife also told me she won't be going to Sydney to see Katy Perry as we can't afford it and it was a "whim". On one hand I'm glad she's come to this realisation because it is out of our depth with the other commitments we have and on the other hand it's disappointing that she doesn't get to do something she wants to do. I told her that if there's something she wants to do to let me know and we'll put money away for it. I got no response to that.
Last night I finally watched the Notebook myself. Interesting movie to watch with a spouse who doesn't like you much at the moment. I really enjoyed it though.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014