Keep your eyes on the now. Your not alone. What helps me is focusing on todays next step, the immediate next step. Not planning, but what you do for you, right now.

Me:36
Her:35
together 11yrs
M 7 1/2yrs
lived together 10yrs
2dogs 2cats
Mortgage on a house

bomb dropped 01/12/14
Separate bedrooms/W stays here some nights
I want to stay married