In addition to all that cr@p about seeing kids last night he also was spewing stuff about finances. When checking account this morning I realized that his check was much to small for the amount of time he claims he is working and that once again I am going to be making calls asking for payment arrangements so we can get through the month.

I said, again, we needed to make arrangements for shared expenses and separate our finances. He asked why and I said because we are separated. He said "we are not separated. Since when did you think we were separated. ?"

What???!!!! Maybe since you said I was not your wife and you were no longer married to me.


Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15