Wife wants divorce - my first post

[tbm4evr]

When my W got home last night she told me that I said i wanted our son to go too so we could have some alone time ...maybe I did? ..my neediness again she says ...i really need to do a 180. I need to let her go, not question where she goes or what she does or have her fill any of my needs if that makes sense. She left the house last night at 8 and came home at midnight and told me she met her girlfriend I'll call "Sue". I did tell her you don't need to tell me anything (besides I know it's mostly lies and she probably met the OM with whom she said she has an emotional connection - of course I didn't tell her that). At this point I need to let her go and need to focus on me ...if she comes back - great. Appreciate any advice.