Just thinking out loud ... or on a keyboard ...

H wants a valuation of the company done by our CPA. He then wants us to sit down and work out the division of the assets, business and personal, and come to an agreement. He then wants to sit down with our attorney's, sign our agreement and file for D.

He does not want to provide a financial disclosure. He does not want me to file right away because "we would have to meet deadlines, there would be postponements and the judge would get irritated."

Needless to say, I don't trust him. Does he think I will change my mind? Is he delaying because he's not sure? Is he just trying to save money on attorney's fees? Does he think he can smooth talk me into an agreement that is more in his interests that mine? What's the motive in "let's take this slow?"

Looking forward to seeing my L this week.


Me: 59 and holding
H: :53
Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown
M: 19
T: 23
BD: 9-23-2013