Any time she tries to talk about D or our relationship I avoid it. So no, I don't and don't plan to ever assist with anything related to divorce. If she insists, I tell her I don't support it. So the conversation usually ends there.
Ex: we were discussing details for our daughter's bday and I was listings things I could do to help. She was worried about money and I told her I could get an extra draw to help. She then brought relationship talk and mentioned that I am selectively helping on things because I havent spoken to her about the D or about talking to the kids. Thats when I told her it was late and we needed to sort the party details. I said "we should talk about that another time" gracefully and we resumed talking about the events we were planning.
So, I am trying to be careful and not allowing relationship or D talk.
Me: 37, WAW 33, M 13 years Kids: Boy: 4, Girl: 8 Separated: 10/24/13 DB since: 12/14/13 Big D talk started: 1/1/14 (Not served yet) Still living together/Separate rooms
