Portia,

Wish I had a magic wand that would take all of the "Skippy" memories away. But then that would leave a major hole in your life! Every experience that we have, good and not so good, teaches us something. Once we figure out what we were suppose to have learned we can move forward.

I like what Eric says above, we can choose how we embrace, react, think and feel. You have control over all of that. And if all else fails ask yourself what your grammy would say..I'm guessing she would say, "P!ss on it!" I think of that every time I read your thread, Portia. She was a wise woman. LOL

Do you think it's time that you take a few days off, book yourself a weekend at a spa and let someone spoil and pamper you? It works wonders on our physical as well as mental being. I want a full report of how you feel after your spa vacation.

Take care.


Me:57H:62
M:34T:35
2S,2D (grown nlah)
BD:09/2012 visits M ow
EA/PA?:10/2012
H moves out 06/2013

"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama