I don't mean to add too much but if she's a WAW why are you offering to help her? Offering help to my WAS got me nowhere fast. She hated it. You don't have to be a jerk, but stop being so nice. Be a dad, play with your kids and let your W act like the grown woman she is smile

if you get divorced are you going to offer to help her? if she's a WAS, then right now, she doesn't want a H. So don't worry so much about being like a H. be a good dad and a great friend and see where that takes you. Just my 2 cents. Trust me, I already went down this path....

me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14