GB,
I just caught up on your switch and noticed we have a lot of similarities. I got bomb drop when folding laundry too!
You are handling yourself really well and I feel for your poor kiddos.
My H anger is always just under the surface and can come out of nowhere.
I no longer recognize him anymore.
Job has given some great advice and thoughts. These mlcers cause so much pain.


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014