GB, I just caught up on your switch and noticed we have a lot of similarities. I got bomb drop when folding laundry too! You are handling yourself really well and I feel for your poor kiddos. My H anger is always just under the surface and can come out of nowhere. I no longer recognize him anymore. Job has given some great advice and thoughts. These mlcers cause so much pain.
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014