Yes, it does stink. How someone exits so quickly and easily is beyond me. But, this is about her and not you. Rest assuredly that you did all you could and this is the outcome. Please, take time to heal; to truly feel every emotion as they will all come out and reappear time and time again. It's the only way to heal. You WILL make it through and life will be better than you every imagined. Heal for you and your daughter; she will need you as well. Try not to waste your time thinking about your soon to be ex; focus on you. Some answers you will never have and that's okay. You can move on without them. We are all here to support you. Love and nurture yourself, build your friend base, find a spiritual practice and take it day by day...


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B