Don't know what to think

[TL72*]

Hi T-boned,
I read your whole sitch - you were so kind to post to mine. So much of yours is just like mine. Which makes all the responses you got very helpful to me. I'm sorry to hear about the OW. Mine insisted he didn't have one (back when I was asking questions) then I learned not to. Of course you can't believe anything they say anyway. I don't even want to know now, all it does is hurt. Unfortunately we have to let them go on this journey alone. I am reading all i can which seems a little obsessive but like you had mentioned earlier, it sort of makes you feel better about the sitch when you have more of an understanding - even though it doesn't actually make sense - it is a reason, an explanation. it all still seems so crazy right now and I want to fast forward, but then again we're going through our own process as the LBS. I'm glad you are GAL, that's the best thing we can do for ourselves right now. take care and keep posting!!