All this break my heart man. Why do good people have to suffer for loving a woman. I'm with you man, I'm in the same situation so I feel your pain 100%. Just keep working on you and doing the best to keep everything positive around her. Keep up the good work! Don't allow her action to bother you. She's lust and living in a fantasy land. You can't change anything but to work on you right now. I'm leaning to do the same man. I know you miss her and want her more, I know it hurt not having your wife right now. But with time everything will be okay. Either with or without her. Keep up the the good work!